Why do men do not support us when we are really bad Since childhood, the boys assimilate the idea that girls are hysterical and whinkers. Growing, they continue to relate to the manifestations of female emotionality skeptical and, even when a woman really needs help, consider her complaints and requests of Blazh and manifestation of…

Why we buy: how to avoid unnecessary spending Well, they spent again too much! We scold yourself for spontaneous purchases and unreasonable investments. Where does the inability come from to manage money? It turns out that hasty financial decisions are guided by cognitive distortions. Psychologist Jeremy Dean tells how to figure them out to avoid…

Why do we find it difficult to care for ourselves Apply cream daily, regularly make hair masks, go to yoga or relaxing massages, eat right … We all know what to do to look good and feel great. However, often theory and practice diverge. Why do we find it difficult to care for ourselves? Our…

Why do we like to condemn everyone so much? The terrorist attacks in Belgium were caused by some not natural sympathy, but the desire to indicate Europe on its harmful multiculturalism and carelessness. Where does this thrust come from? Because we have strong the traditions of collectivism "The more prone society to collectivism, the stronger…

Why do we need gender stereotypes Are there "real" men and women? What are useful and harmful behavioral models? About how the ideas about gender roles change, we talked with a clinical psychologist Yakov Kochetkov. Psychologies: How gender stereotypes work, why are they needed? Yakov Kochetkov: I recently saw an article in which the results…

Why do we not like to meet the ours abroad? The serenity and silence of the sea shore in a distant country suddenly destroys the female voice: "Masha! Where you went! I’m talking to whom?"- And then the father of the family arrived at the rented jeep and included loud music. Why meetings with compatriots…

Why do we take responsibility for parents For all rules of life, parents raise children and become support for them and support, and not vice versa. But sometimes everything falls down on his head, and we feel more adult than parents. We nurse with them, as with small children, putting the cross on their own…

Why do you need a psychologist? Why treat a psychologist? What will it help and help whether? And why the psychotherapeutic session has nothing to do with a friendly conversation? "The patient does not understand, and my task is to explain to him. "- I hear sometimes from colleagues. Yes, and patients themselves are often…

"Why does the wife entrust me by complaints?" When I come from work, the wife literally attacked me: requires attention, compliments, and even immediate sex. If I’m not in the mood, you begin reproaching: "You do not love me. »It is absolutely useless to argue. What happens to her? At these moments, you probably have…